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Gender: Male
Submitted By: Self
City of Residence: New York
State/Province/County: New York
Country of Residence: United States
Citizen/Permanent Resident of: United States
Age: 67
Height: 5' 7" - (170cm)
Marital Status: Divorced
Religion: Shia Jafari/Ithna-asheri
Ethnicity: African (Indo/Pak/Asian)
Can speak/understand: English Hindi Swahili Kiswahili Urdu
Father's origin: East Africa
Mother's origin: East Africa
Current Occupation: Self-employed
Education Obtained: Graduate / Masters Degree
Smoking: Don't smoke
Have a handicap/disability? No
Seeking Marriage: Soon after finding the right one
Hijaab Preference:
Have children at present? No
Willing to Relocate? No
Syed? No
Convert to Islam? No
Received higher Islamic education (Hawzah)? -

Common interests

Cooking, Dining out, Exercising, Movies/Videos, Tea/Coffee & conversation, Volunteering, Watching sports,                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  

Religious practice

Practising.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

My partner preferences

1. She’s nice. According to bumper sticker wisdom, mean people suck. 2. She doesn't rush you. Wanting to talk about plans for the future is one thing. Deadlines and ultimatums are another. Don’t be bullied into marriage just because you’re afraid you’ll lose her. Fear has no place in this process. 3. She bring out the best in you. A great indicator that she’s right for you is that being with her makes you want to be a better man. 4. She has her own goals and is supportive of yours. When these things are in perfect alignment, you’ve really got something great. 5. A decent relationship with her parents. Extreme circumstances aside, you’re not going to want to get involved with someone who hates her parents, or has caused them a lot of pain. It’s an indicator of how she feels about the people closest to her, which you’re going to be. 6. She’s emotionally stable. Crazy girls can be a lot of fun in the short term, but you don’t want to spend your life with someone who runs hot and cold. You want someone who has their shit together. 7. You’re compatible. In a relationship, you need to have the same (or at least very similar) likes and dislikes. 8. She’s a team player. Even if you’re both pretty old-fashioned about gender roles, relationships in today’s world don’t fly if all she wants is to be taken care of. You’re not taking over for her parents, okay? 9. She doesn’t ask for the moon. We all want to live in the house on the hill, but we don’t all make it up there. Make sure she’s going to be okay even if you don’t deliver on your moneymaking potential. 10. She keeps her cool in arguments. Relationships have arguments. That’s a fact of life. If you can get through them without her bursting into tears, or you punching a hole through the wall, you’re in good shape. 11. She takes care of herself. Go ahead and complain, fatties. Not saying you have to be an Olympic volleyball player or a supermodel, but everyone — man or woman — should stay healthy. 12. You’re okay with each other’s baggage. Most of us have a bag or two. Be honest about how you feel about what she comes with — and make sure she’s doing the same with you. 13. She’s at least as smart as you are. 14. She respects guy’s night. If she trusts you to go out with the boys (and you honor that trust), you’ve got a keeper. 15. Her partying days are behind her. 16. She accepts your faults. And doesn’t take it upon herself to fix them. 17. She can cook. This may seem old-fashioned, and I’m not saying she has to be Betty Crocker, but don’t pretend you don’t want your woman to feed you, because you do. 18. She takes care of you when you’re sick. If she keeps her distance when you’re down, that’s a pretty good indicator of her life philosophy. If, on the other hand, she’s all about keeping you in chicken soup and cough medicine, this is a woman who really cares about you. 19. You have similar tastes. She can be a little bit country to your rock and roll, but in general, you need to like a lot of the same stuff, or you’ll find a lot of conflict down the road over very little things. 20. She calls you on your bullshit. You don’t want a doormat; you want someone who stands up for herself. 21. She makes you feel important. If you’re considering marriage, you should both be out of the game-playing phase. 22. She lets things go. You’re going to do stupid things from time to time. That doesn’t mean you need to be reminded of it every three months. 23. She has a sense of humor. Every woman on the planet wants a funny guy. Since you’ve worked so hard on that, you deserve someone who appreciates it. 24. She’s confident. You want her to love you, not need you. She needs to be okay with her life outside of your relationship. Nurturing the needy is not a romantic relationship.

More about me

...I’m mature energetic, elegant and tactful … Someone may say I’m perfect while looking at me or my pictures. But it’s more important for me to know that a person say more about my inner being, about my soul, individual characteristics. I need to feel someone shares with me and don’t throw words into the air. Life is so beautiful … but also it’s not eternal. As every man's dream to find my true love. How it would be great to bestow a smile to my beloved one in the morning and make her feel cheerful and energetic to the end of day . And how it would be nice to hear sweet “I love you honey” before we fall asleep … I would like to know if you would like to have those moments in your life? I tend to self-improvement and spiritual growth. I’m fond of sport. An active move is what makes my body stronger and my mood inspired! I’m curious, smart, witty and tender. Would you accept those things? I’m fond of working out and it has become a part of my life! I really want to know your attitude towards a beautiful life.

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