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Common interests

Cooking, Current events, Dining out, Exercising, Gardening/Landscaping, Islamic activities, Museums & art, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Reading books, Shopping, Style & fashion, Tea/Coffee & conversation, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering,                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  

Religious practice

I honestly careful lady down to earth trying to praktise as much I can..                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

My partner preferences

Seeking for honest man,60 Ways To Keep Your Wife Happy 1. Make her feel secure. Allow her to feel the sakeena. 2. Greet her with “As-salaamu-alaikum wa rahmatullah” – this will keep the shaytan out of your home 3. Know your wife is a fragile whistle – take care of this whistle (i.e. treat her in a gentle way) 4. Advise her in privacy and during a loving, romantic and/or peaceful atmosphere 5. Be generous to your wife 6. Give her your space/seat 7. Avoid anger – one way is to keep wudhu at all times, another is to sit down or lie down when angry 8. Looking good, smelling great 9. Don’t be rigid or you maybe broken – be good and be flexible 10. Be a good listener 11. Say Yes to flattery, No to arguments 12. Call your wife with the best of names 13. Give her pleasant surprises 14. Preserve the tongue (i.e. don’t say abusive words since some words take years to wipe out) 15. Accept her shortcomings 16. Show her that you appreciate her 17. Encourage her to keep her kin relationships, especially with her mother and father 18. Pick topics of interest to her during conversations 19. Show that she is a wonderful wife in front of her relatives (and friends) 20. Give her gifts all the time 21. Get rid of the “rust” (routine of life) once in a while 22. Think good of your wife 23. Overlook any small words or actions that you did not like (i.e. don’t save them in your memory) 24. Add a drop of patience every day. Increase this patience during pregnancy and her monthly cycle 25. Expect and respect her jealousy 26. Be humble – know that her success at home is your success 27. Don’t make your friends happy at the cost of your wife’s happiness 28. Help with housework 29. Don’t try to force your wife to love your mother. Help her to respect your mother and father and gradually the love will come 30. Make her feel that she is an ‘ideal’ wife 31. Remember your wife in your du’a 32. Leave the past to Allah (SWT) i.e. don’t dig up past issues 33. Don’t show that you are doing a favour when you do something (e.g. bring food home etc.). Know that Allah (SWT) is the provider and your are only a courier 34. Treat the Shaytan (and not your wife) as your enemy. e.g. when an argument breaks out know that present is you, your wife and shaytan. 35. Feed your wife with your hands – this is a blessing 36. Look at your wife as a “precious pearl” – so protect her from the envy of the shayateen 37. Show her your “pearls” (smiles) – smiling is like giving in charity 38. Deal with the little things/problems immediately before they become big issues 39. Dont’t be hard or harsh-hearted 40. Respect her thinking and thought 41. Help her to dig within herself to find success 42. Respect the boundaries of the intimate relationship 43. Help her take care of your children 44. Give her the gifts of the tongue 45. Sit down and eat meals together with your wife 46. Let her know when you are travelling and the date and time you are coming back (i.e. no surprises) 47. Don’t leave your home to avoid an argument 48. Protect the secrecy and privacy of your home – don’t share it with others 49. Encourage each other in worshiping Allah (SWT) – e.g. prayers, attend lectures, plan to go on hajj or umrah trip together 50. Know her rights and treat them as something that are engraved in your heart and conscious 51. Live with them with kindness – treat your wife with goodness in prosperity and adversity 52. “Send a messenger” before any intimite relationship (i.e. kissing and sweet words) 53. Don’t share your family problems with others (except when seeking genuine islamic advice) 54. Show that you care for her health 55. Know that you have shortcomings and are not always right 56. Share your happiness and sadness with your wife 57. Have mercy on her weakness 58. Be the “comfortable chest” for her and allow her to lean on you 59. Accept her “as-is” 60. Have a good intention (niyaah) for your wife at all the times

More about me

Honest lady                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

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